I don't think I could let that happen. Break up with her. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat.
Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. Only you will know. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. What a miserable state. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse.
Nothing less will do. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate. Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it.
Now we go out to eat or to watch a play or do something together about once every week or two, which is a nice change compared to once a year. Dating is a tricky game. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. I'd at least insist that at 12 the kids can choose to disaffiliate. Rights of all genders are supported here. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up.